Passing shit tests D:

Ever had a girl attracted, but lost it after a "difficult question or statement"? I know i have :(, until I discovered PUA ;). These questions are how women test men. They give you a SHIT TEST. The dreaded test is one that PUA's must pass. Here are some examples of how women like to "test" men:

- "Can you buy me a drink?"

- "Do you think I'm fat?"

- "You know, you're not sleeping with me tonight."

I'm sure you guys have been faced with similar situations. Mystery's book "Revelations" taught me a formula to deal with these shit tests. It's called Ghost and Flame. So here's how I would deal with the shit tests above: (in order)

- "Maybe, but you'll have to impress me to get it *smile*."

- "Why would you ask me such a wierd question *smile*?" OR "I think you have a big head *smile*."

- "Yeah, you haven't charmed me enough yet *smile*."

Note how I don't answer the question, rather, I let the question go through me, like a Ghost, and turn the focus onto them, Flame.

Using Ghost method, is basically not alowing anything to affect your state. So don't give a shit about remarks. Let them pass through you. Become, the "unaffected one".

The Flame, is the confident energy you radiate that affects others. It's basically how I come up with the smart comebacks.

So in summary:

-Let the negative energy in ther comment/question pass right through, unaffecting your state.

-Turn the tables and focus your reply on them.

NEVER disagree and try to defend yourself, just accept their critisism and Flame their asses off. Explaining yourself makes you look like an AFC (google it), reducing your value. After passing shit tests, escalated attracion will follow ;).

I suggest finding a partner to practice GHOST and FLAME. Tell him to insult you and use the methods above to fight off his comments. OR, the best way is to

Get out there and socialize!

With this awesomely useful knowledge in mind, Playsafe ;)