How to widen your social circle.

I've been watching some of my friends climb up the social ladder. Some more impressive than others. Didn't like how some of them sucked up, to be with the 'top' people. So here's how I like to do it.

Step 1: Think of 5 friends (or any number really) for this task. They cannot be in the same social group. Preferrably, they should not be your best friends. Think of that classmate or co-worker you have a nice chat with now and again :).

Step 2: Note that each of these friends will have people in their social circle, that you are not acquainted with. Your targets will be those people. When you see a group of people talking to your friend, socialize with them. Easier said than done, but its okay, I believe in you ;).

Step 3: Once acquainted, shit. Once acquainted, choose the high quality people that will suit your lifestyle. Get close, and meet the friends of your new friends :).

Step 4: Repeat from Step 1 with your freind's friends :D. See the potential? It's endless.

This process is much easier than meeting random people. But meeting random people works too. It's one of the specialties in the PUA's repertoire.

Tips:

- Don't try too hard. Makes you look needy and it lowers your social value.

- Make them work for you, it'll increase your social value. In other words, don't tell them too much too early. Some guy or girl you just met would rarely want to hear about your life story. It also makes you seem mysterious, because you're never giving away too much information, leaving them wanting to know more. Wanting = ATTRACTION ;).

- Try not to ask too many question. It's such a cliche way to start and continue a conversation. Rather, you should try and provide statements which people would be baited to reply to. For example, you could say:

"Where I'm from that ain't normal." Most people would be tempted to ask:

"Where are you from?" See how baiting tempts people to ask a question? I don't wanna give more examples, be original :P.

- Don't stay or hang around too long. Make a good impression and leave. 5 to 20 minustes is ideal for this type of chat. Remember, high value people are always busy ;).

- Expose your palms when you want to show you're trustworthy.

- Have fun with it, when you have fun, those around you have fun. Emotions are contaigous. Even smiles :].

Benifits to a wide social circle:

- More friends :D.

- You will usually be much happier with life.

- More chances of finding a mate :).

- You will become more confident. I have a friend that has problems talking to cashiers xD.

- You will be popular.

- Making new friends will become much easier at this point.

However, watch out, exposing yourself to the public like that can make you many enemies. People will tend to get jelous of you and talk shit behind you back. But who cares right? High value people have more important things to worry about, like laundry ;).

And yeah, i totally ripped of this format from some site, can't remember which :S.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and socialise!

Play safe ;)