Why girls find that lean body attractive.

Most girls will go GAGA over this picture. I think it all has to do with the "Evolution glitch" I mentioned in an earlier post, but I'm not gonna bother explaining it again :).

Back in "the days," women needed to find a mate that worked hard and could protect her offspring. I think the lean figure shown above is the perfect indicator for the mentioned qualities. It takes lots of activity to maintain that fat free belly and I think this physique has the perfect speed:strength ratio that is crutial in a fight.

Now fast forward to modern society. I think women are still wired to be attracted towards this type of physique. HOWEVER, being too buff puts you at a disadvantage. Being ULTRA buff like those pro weight lifters burns too much energy from your body, therefore making energy conservation inefficient. Imagine if one of those buff guys was stuck in a remote mountain with only water but no food. Their gargantuan muscles will burn whatever energy they have left like fire burning paper. I think this unattraction towards ultra-buff is wired into women's brains as well.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and join a gym :). Here are some tips to gain that type of physique:

- Do lots of cardio, you need to burn lots of belly fat to attain that figure ;). Try squats if you don't like jogging.

- Try to concentrate on wide-arm push-ups to build that barrel chest. Remember, too much ab but no chest looks wierd.

- Cut down on fast food :P.

Note: This body will help you attain attraction, but only a little. Its whats inside that turns them on, the "flame" that you cast upon them. But then again, don't get discouraged, its healthy to exercise ;).

Playsafe :D

Smiles.

Most girl's social senses are more acutethan an aveage man's. They can tell when you are faking a smile, so let me let you in ;). Its all in the eyes. Squint a lil if you want to fake a smile. Remember to show your teeth :D

BUT IT'S BETTER IF YOU SMILE IS GENUINE.

You can use your smile as a tool, like a fucking cannon. It can be used as an I.O.I calibrator (google it). Remember, showing I.O.D's are important to defuse her auto-reject response,but I.O.I's are needed to escalate physically and emotionally, and alot of guys don't know how to convey I.O.I's properly. If lost for words, use your smile as your default. BUT only if she deserves it.

So flash a smile, when she amuses you, said something cool or impressed you. They'll appreciate the genuine appeal. Try not to smile all the time, makes you look creepy :P.

Playsafe :)

PUA makes the world a better place.

I have a friend, two actually, who tells me that they would hate to be on the recieving end of a PUA.

BULLSHIT

PUA methologies changes men from the inside, making them a more attractive person (trust me, sometimes the changes are overwhelming). When learned the right way, PUA methods will turn you into an alpha male, which is what most women want (no girls. don't try to deny this).

WHY though? Let me tell you what I learned from VIn DiCarlo's "The Attraction Code". He says that human civilisation is living through a glitch in the evolution matrix. Society is evolving at a faster rate than we are evolving.

Women at the time (cavemen times) were attracted to the alpha male, the leader of the group, because mating with him would provide better chances for the offspring to survive. The alpha male was confident, had man social alignments, and most of the time, people obeyed his word without question. He was the true leader.

Now, civilisation has evolved rappidly in the past hundred years, meaning our biological evolution cannot catch up, as it takes thousands of years of evolution to make even the slightest of changes apparent in our bodies and the way our brain works.

Therefore, we are very similar to our cavemen ancestors. Which means, women are still attracted to the same characteristics. If humans did evolve with the same pace with society, girls would be attracted to rich men with sports cars, because they can provide. But thats just not the case these days ;).

Most women still want the alpha male. They can't help it, its the way their brain works ;). But a disaster has occured in humanity. Guys out there are becoming more femenine and females more dominant. Its an epidemic. Which is why having more PUA's out there makes the world a better place :).

Trust me girls, you would be much better off with a PUA. Not all of them are "players." Most of them joined for the right reasons ;). I don't have to tell you wht those reasons are :P.

Intidimidation.

A man's wits are tested everyday. It's how people "judge" you. They say things to you, sometimes hurtful things, just to observe the following response. According to your response, they will judge you. A bad response will always result in loss of social status. Here's an example:

"Dude, WTF is your problem?" I'll usually:

*shrugs* OR, if I'm in a good mood:

*walk away* But if you like verbal responses:

"Why are you asking me this?" Yes, these are similar to shit tests, but girls do it to flirt and filter out AFC guys. But the response methods remain the same. All you have to do is:

Not give a fuck.

Why should you? Don't let these judgemental fuckers get you down. You have better things to worry about, like Global Warming ;).

Eye contact.

Try giving eye contact to EVERYONE who walks by you. Gives you a self esteem boost. Good way to start a conversation. REMEMBER, Beta males cannot maintain eye contact ;).

Soul Gazing.

Want to make your general conversations better? Try Soul Gazing.

Step 1: Look at your reciever's right eye (your right) with your right eye as you converse.

Step 2: Synchronise your breathing to match your reciever's breathing pace.

It's that simple. And very effective :). A connection between two people occurs when they have something to relate to, therefore conneccting them. Soul Gazing works because the synced breathing pace will act as a subconcious indicator, telling the reciever's brain that you two are in the same state (something to relate to, therefore connection).

Tip, don't go staring at his/her eye the whole time like some wierdo. Use a 70:30 time ratio, where 70% of your time is for eyecontact, and 30% to look at something else. Pretending to be distracted is a good way to show disinterest ;). Unless you're on the physical escalation phase.

You can go a few steps futher and use eye contact to kiss close:

Setp 1: Look at his/her left eye (your left).

Step 2: Look at his/her right eye.

Step 3: Then look at his/her lips.

Start this slowly at first. Then, increase the tempo. Move your head closer at every rotation, but make it discrete, and not obvious. When you feel it's the right time, kiss :).

It makes the entire process smoother. Now you know how to kiss him/her, Playsafe ;).

Passing shit tests D:

Ever had a girl attracted, but lost it after a "difficult question or statement"? I know i have :(, until I discovered PUA ;). These questions are how women test men. They give you a SHIT TEST. The dreaded test is one that PUA's must pass. Here are some examples of how women like to "test" men:

- "Can you buy me a drink?"

- "Do you think I'm fat?"

- "You know, you're not sleeping with me tonight."

I'm sure you guys have been faced with similar situations. Mystery's book "Revelations" taught me a formula to deal with these shit tests. It's called Ghost and Flame. So here's how I would deal with the shit tests above: (in order)

- "Maybe, but you'll have to impress me to get it *smile*."

- "Why would you ask me such a wierd question *smile*?" OR "I think you have a big head *smile*."

- "Yeah, you haven't charmed me enough yet *smile*."

Note how I don't answer the question, rather, I let the question go through me, like a Ghost, and turn the focus onto them, Flame.

Using Ghost method, is basically not alowing anything to affect your state. So don't give a shit about remarks. Let them pass through you. Become, the "unaffected one".

The Flame, is the confident energy you radiate that affects others. It's basically how I come up with the smart comebacks.

So in summary:

-Let the negative energy in ther comment/question pass right through, unaffecting your state.

-Turn the tables and focus your reply on them.

NEVER disagree and try to defend yourself, just accept their critisism and Flame their asses off. Explaining yourself makes you look like an AFC (google it), reducing your value. After passing shit tests, escalated attracion will follow ;).

I suggest finding a partner to practice GHOST and FLAME. Tell him to insult you and use the methods above to fight off his comments. OR, the best way is to

Get out there and socialize!

With this awesomely useful knowledge in mind, Playsafe ;)

The power of a man's social status.

I have a friend, who I saw as a less than average guy. He was acquainted with a group of my friends. Even they thought rather poorly of him. The girls didn't find him attractive at all. The guys saw him as a whimp.

Until, we saw him surrounded with huge group one day, a similar size to ours, being the centre of attraction. Suddenly, we wanted to get to know him more. I found him more appealing. Some of my friends tried to hit on him xD. He was oozing social value and alpha-maleness.

We acted totally differently towards him since that day. I know it's shallow, but hey, nobody's perfect ;).

To you girls out there, ADMIT IT. There was once a guy you found unattractive, until you knew how many friends he had, and/or saw how good he was with crowds. It's okay,you can't be blamed, you're a girl :P. It just goes to show that looks play a minimal part in attraction towards men.

So guys, take this as a reason to increase your social status, or learning to display it. Displaying high social status is a critical skill PUA's must master, as girls are more likely to respond to high value guys. It is important that you establish your status as being higher that your target. Think about it, would a girl date a guy that has social lower value than her? Rarely :P. Which is why the popular guys in highschool had an easier time finding prom dates ;).

Girls, now you know why you find that popular guy so hot ;P.

Goondnight, Play safe :).

Moment of inspiration :).

There's this guy I know, we'll call him Josh, who, practically, everybody hates. Check this out, the way he talks, is so, disgusting. Listening to him talk, actually ruins my mood. Thats just the tone of his voice, the shit he says is even worse. I can never joke with him because he takes things too seriously. And when I try to tease him, he gets all defensive. Basically, an asshole.

Despite his gargantuan assness, I stumbled upon him socialising today. He was talking to a group of people. They actually looked like they were having a good time, even though they were talking about Maplestory or something like that =.=''.

I smiled and thought, "If he can do it so can everybody else ." :)

Play safe :P

How to widen your social circle.

I've been watching some of my friends climb up the social ladder. Some more impressive than others. Didn't like how some of them sucked up, to be with the 'top' people. So here's how I like to do it.

Step 1: Think of 5 friends (or any number really) for this task. They cannot be in the same social group. Preferrably, they should not be your best friends. Think of that classmate or co-worker you have a nice chat with now and again :).

Step 2: Note that each of these friends will have people in their social circle, that you are not acquainted with. Your targets will be those people. When you see a group of people talking to your friend, socialize with them. Easier said than done, but its okay, I believe in you ;).

Step 3: Once acquainted, shit. Once acquainted, choose the high quality people that will suit your lifestyle. Get close, and meet the friends of your new friends :).

Step 4: Repeat from Step 1 with your freind's friends :D. See the potential? It's endless.

This process is much easier than meeting random people. But meeting random people works too. It's one of the specialties in the PUA's repertoire.

Tips:

- Don't try too hard. Makes you look needy and it lowers your social value.

- Make them work for you, it'll increase your social value. In other words, don't tell them too much too early. Some guy or girl you just met would rarely want to hear about your life story. It also makes you seem mysterious, because you're never giving away too much information, leaving them wanting to know more. Wanting = ATTRACTION ;).

- Try not to ask too many question. It's such a cliche way to start and continue a conversation. Rather, you should try and provide statements which people would be baited to reply to. For example, you could say:

"Where I'm from that ain't normal." Most people would be tempted to ask:

"Where are you from?" See how baiting tempts people to ask a question? I don't wanna give more examples, be original :P.

- Don't stay or hang around too long. Make a good impression and leave. 5 to 20 minustes is ideal for this type of chat. Remember, high value people are always busy ;).

- Expose your palms when you want to show you're trustworthy.

- Have fun with it, when you have fun, those around you have fun. Emotions are contaigous. Even smiles :].

Benifits to a wide social circle:

- More friends :D.

- You will usually be much happier with life.

- More chances of finding a mate :).

- You will become more confident. I have a friend that has problems talking to cashiers xD.

- You will be popular.

- Making new friends will become much easier at this point.

However, watch out, exposing yourself to the public like that can make you many enemies. People will tend to get jelous of you and talk shit behind you back. But who cares right? High value people have more important things to worry about, like laundry ;).

And yeah, i totally ripped of this format from some site, can't remember which :S.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and socialise!

Play safe ;)

Piercing Eyes -HB7.5

Went to see "Twelvth Night" by Shakespeare at a theater. Bought a ticket, chilled at the bar inside, and ordered a Diet Coke (yes, I don't drink... often *wink*). I hear a voice to my left.

"Hey do you have an I-Pod?"

"Thats an unusual pick-up line. Most girls who hit on me ask for a cigarrete :)."

"*gasps* Oh my god! HAHAHA"

"You use that line often? Bet it works on all those looser guys."

"Hey! I don't have to hit on guys. They hit on me! *smiles*"

"Ya ya, don't flatter yourself."

"*laughter* Hey dont make me angry, I flip tables when I'm angry"

"You angry now?"

"Maybe, since you're so mean *wink*."

"LIAR! You don't flip tables when pissed, you laugh! See, you're doin it again. OMG, you're like opposite girl. What if I make you happy, do you flip tables when you're happy?"

"OMG shut up!"

At this point, shes just laughing as I bash her with negs. Don't know what a neg is? Google it ;). So she's laughing when the speakers announced the show was starting. Took out my I-Pod, and winked. So we watched the show together, listning softly to metal music.

At some point of the show:

"Hey **********(not the actual number of letters in her name), see that actor? Its a girl."

"What? Oh, I see it now."

"OMG gross, I know what you were looking at. I didn't know you roll that way haha."

"OMG shut up!" She said while thumping my head. Show was great. In the end, I came back with a sweet smelling sweater ;).

Thank You, Play safe ;)

The problem facing modern women.

Here's a very common cycle that occurs in an average guy's dating life:

- Meets cute girl

- Girl shows some attraction

- Guy starts clinging to girl... alot

- Guy floods girl with attention and needyness

- He calls her alot

- Guy gets jelous when she talks to other boys

- Girl gets annoyed and the attraction dies

- Girl wants some space

- Guy admits his "feelings" fer girl

- Girl gets creeped out and...

a) Feels sorry for the guy and tells him they should be friends (common among schoolmates)

b) Completely ignores the guy from that day

- Guy's social status plummets, as the girl will usually gossip about the sad boy, it's not a bad thing and it's not their fault. Girls wil be girls ;).

- Guy is heartbroken but... still dosent give up

- He will believe that he still has a chance and admires from afar until...

- Guy meets new cute girl

Yeah, and the cycle continues. The thing is, most guys are too needy. If you are a boy reading this, you would have probably went through the same cycle. I know I have. If you are a girl reading this, you would probably be nodding your head, because some guy has shown the same needyness. And you gossiped about him, dont deny it :P

There is that 1% of guys that get away with this. They're increadibly lucky.

So Guys, chil out! Play it cool, go with the flow.

Girls, go easy on them :P.

Goodnight, Playsafe ;)

Why P.U.A rocks.

The PUA life, is sweet :). Imagine being the centre of attraction at an social gathering. Imagine intimidating those bigger than you. Imagine knowing exactly how people work. Imagine knowing how attraction works. Imagine using that knowledge to turn"acquaintences" into girlfriends, friends with benefits, whatever works for you ;).These are some of the many perks of a PUA.